Frequently asked questions
Q: What is a "spiritual" counseling session?
A: Spiritual counseling is a way for you to tap into guidance from your spirit guides (usually our loved ones) who have a big-picture bird's eye view of our lives. I will work as the medium/ channeler and help you get answers to some of your burning questions.
Q: How will I know it is my loved one coming through?
A: Our guides are not interested in proving their presence to us. They come in to help us and if they think it will help us to receive a specific piece of information, then they are happy to provide it, but otherwise, they will tell us what we need to hear and move along. I have had several readings where I will share something I could never have known. I tell my clients to focus on the messages they are receiving and allow them to resonate.
Q: Do the "spiritual counseling" sessions need to be in person?
A: No. The sessions can take place in person or on zoom.
Q: What language do the spirits communicate to you in?
A: They communicate with thoughts so language doesn’t matter really. Sometimes I will get particular words in a different language that I don’t understand but it makes sense to the client.
Q: Can u connect if the loved one passed on 16 yrs ago?
A: We absolutely can and chances are they have been trying to connect and that is why you’re getting pulled to reach out.
Q: How do I know when it’s time for me to get a session with you?
A: Typically our guides are always trying to connect with us to give us messages all the time, but especially in times when we are struggling or asking for help.
Q: What kind of problems do our guides help us solve?
A: The message our guides give us will either give us peace and closure in a way that we have not felt before. They may give us clarity in a struggle or block that we are facing, or a push towards our purpose and path in life.
Q: How do I know when it’s time for me to come see you? Do I even need this?
A: You will feel the pull to connect when it’s time. We are capable of a lot but when it comes to our own problems our vision gets skewed and we are unable to see the bigger picture. This is when our guides can show us a creative solution or vision from their bird's eye view.
Q: I don't want to bother them with my silly problems. Isn't my life a result of my karma? This feels like cheating the system.
A: Consider your guides like your coaches. If you were struggling with something in school or a sport, wouldn't you reach out and get some help from your coaches? And wouldn't your coach be happy to guide you?
Q: Why do our guides want to help us?
A: Our guides tell us that we have the physical abilities to do so much more than them. In their world, they only have the power of thoughts so they try to give us as many thoughts to improve our lives and those around us.
Q: This all seems a little scary. I don’t want to open a can of worms or learn about what may go wrong in my future.
A: Our guides are not interested in scaring us. Their primary purpose in showing up is to simply connect with us because they miss us or guide us when we feel stuck, or help protect us and our families. Isn't it funny that when we sign up for a vacation or job or course, we want to do our research but when it comes to some of our life's biggest decisions we only want to wing it? What is it that we are afraid of?
Q: Can you predict my future? That scares me.
A: I don’t do premonitions, so I doubt I will tell you something crazy scary, but I help you get messages that will help you remove the subconscious blocks holding you back in your life. I can also help you identify your soul's true purpose and mission in this lifetime but asking your guides for healing and clarity. This is usually done by passed relatives or spirit guides who want to help you.
Q: I don’t have any dead relatives that I know of. Can I still get guidance?
A: Absolutely! Even if you weren't close to your relatives who have passed on, you have spiritual guides and helping forces of nature working with you all the time. In our session, you will only receive the messages that will help your soul get aligned with its true purpose.
Q: What do the guides get out of helping us?
A: Our guides are always trying to improve their karmic bank balance in the spirit world and they do so by being of service. "By helping us improve our lives and serving those around us, they also rise up in their journey.
Q: What kind of messages can I expect to receive?
A: Typically the guides will give us messages we need to hear, and they wrap them up in so much unconditional love that we will completely resonate with them and leave with a feeling of wholeness.
Chitra Rochlani is an intuitive medium/ healer who has worked through auto writing, energy healing, and spiritual guidance for the past 20 years.
She offers counseling sessions to help people get "unstuck", identify the blocks holding them back and help them see the path to a more fulfilled, passionate life.
Chitra serves as a conduit between clients and their loved ones who want to come through with messages.
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